Wednesday, January 28, 2009



sToP iT!!!!!


My mind suddenly triggering and wondering why ....sumtimes ....our life won't flow or directed to what we had already planned.. may be for many peoples (n i also fully believe)..that they might be thinkin' of QADA' N QADAR (muslims)..yesss!! i it is true..everyone would agree..(my life itself)..would alwez have an upsides down..from a little things to a giant stuff..*chuckle*..i tink by going through all those thinggy.. i feel i become and born with a 'NEW' human values as it thought me a lot.. day after day.More stronger (mentally n emotionally)..and came out with a matured person as it reflected me in two dimensions...(negatively n positively)..LIFE IS UNFAIR maybe for those who r don't really understand what is the true meaning of life itself..n what i can say is..they never enjoy the opportunity or the chance a human being..i would say that we can't go away from problems or all those hardships..but what we can do is..PATIENCE IS THE 'ESCALATOR' OF LIFE...and try to find the best solution in order to break the chain of the dizziness..behind all those things..there will always the word 'WHY' it happened like that..why is this happen?why me?why ?why?why??...and the question would be prolong for some times if u don't stand in a real life and accept what had happened..saddness would accompany order to stay away from em..APPRECIATE THINGS AROUND US.. n...enjoy ur life to the fullest...insyaALLAH..everything will be fine..

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, then circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say, or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes.
Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.”
Thomas Jefferson


Monday, January 26, 2009

So soft
the brief touch of your lips
on my cheek.
Was I almost intruding?
"Look after yourself "should have been
"I love you!"
Then the Jumbo flew
overmy head
and I shouted
my love
above the roar
and thundering thrust. . .
as if you'd hear.
Through the clouds in my eyes
I watched you fly away
and wished
I'd been born with wings.




yeah!!im in holiday mood!!huhu..actually..i got nothing to do this holy moly day..nrmally ill sleep at 3 a.m and wake up with my panda eye at 6.30am (subuh)..n then ill continue to sleep again.huhu..until.............................................10 a.m (the max)..hee..aftr that, i proceed my day with all the housework (pretend and practising to become a good housewife in future...haha..adosh! (insyaAllah).. ;)..sweeping..washing..mopping..ect...huhu..sometimes i enjoyed doing all those chore..but sometimes when the 'M' DISEASE appears..ADOSH!..sekse kot..huhu..then, ill proceed my NICE DAY by wtcing the 'idiot box'...(lyn cte lak)..n go on till today...hehe..(kinda boring rite)...sumtimes..i am wondering.......when will my prince charming come.(expected TORRES with an invitation card)..hahahahaha...

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most, if not all of us, will face. While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (even yourself), here is a general guide to loving.


Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you, do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.

Monday, January 19, 2009

JELITAS's members is on the air..